Making Decisions in our Life:
Life is the sum of all your choices.
our life is how it is today because of all the decisions we ”have” made in the past.
Every single day we make many decisions. whether you eat healthy food or not is a choice, whether you do sport or not, is choice, whether you hate or love somebody is a choice, every action, everything you do began with a decision to act.
There are different types of making decisions,
Decisions only you can make
Decisions others make for us
Decisions you cannot afford to make
Decisions you cannot afford not to make
There are certain decisions that you must make by yourself throughout the day, things like brushing your teeth, going to groceries to buy a shampoo and you don't know which type of shampoo you want to choose, for curly, dry or colored hair.These are decisions that you probably make alone without the need for consultation. Then there are decisions that other people can make for you. you put some decisions in the hands of other people, for better or worse.
it's fine if others make choices for you and you're happy with the direction your life is heading in. but it's certainly not okay if your life is being controlled by other people.
The decisions we cannot afford are tough decisions that we know it might affect us and unlikely to have a negative impact on our lives. Unlike the decisions, we cannot afford not to make because we are sure it will affect in a good way or when we have no other choices.
The bottom line, it's never a good thing to make a decision when we are in a bad mood or upset or “experiencing” other negative feelings. And I can tell you that it’s all about knowledge and not numbers of mistakes we have made. We need to know how and when it’s the right time to make decisions.
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ReplyDeleteExcellent topic Tamara!
ReplyDeleteMaking decisions is one of the most important things we do, because it is effecting us and our lives directly. We should be wise and balanced while we make them, and asking for help can also be a good decision.... :-)
Wow, great topic and really relevant for each and every one of us.
ReplyDeleteI think that decision making depends only on us, and we are responsible for that. Also, It's good that you mentioned not to make a decision when we are upset.
Tamara I really enjoyed reading your post, it is amzaing and it presents an important topic.
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